Three hours

I did not want to go to the prison this morning. It was just one of those days. I woke up already tired, the other chaplain who normally comes with me, Katy, was not available to join me today due to sickness, and lately I’ve only been seeing one woman on Friday. (The others are all working now on Friday mornings or have been released.) It was hard for me to find motivation to go as it hardly seemed worth the effort. But I went because I knew that the women would expect it.
I left the house a little later than usual and panicked that I might not get there on time. But it turns out that traffic this morning was AWESOME and I ended up arriving 20 minutes early. As I was preparing to go in, I thought, “This morning might be pretty quick… but hey, then I can go grab a coffee nearby and read a book for a short while afterwards so that would actually be kind of nice.” Hahahahaha… oh what silly things we think sometimes.
As Katy wasn’t with me today, I decided to see one of my regulars plus two of hers.  I expected just to say a little “coucou” (hello, hey there, howdy) to them and let them know that Katy wasn’t there, but we were thinking about them and all that jazz. I expected it would take my normal hour and a half… maybe even less.
But no. I was there for almost three hours.
Now, three hours may not seem like that much… but in the prison chaplaincy world it’s a LOT. Usually just the hour and a half makes me exhausted. Today, when I finally left the prison, I went to a bakery to read and drink coffee. Instead I just ended up drinking coffee and essentially staring at a wall for 45 minutes.
This morning was a lot to process. Prison chaplaincy is hard.
I saw three women – one English speaker and two French speakers. I’m just now getting to the point where I can do chaplaincy work in French. It took me a while to get up to that point as chaplaincy work is almost ALL active listening and so it’s very important that you’re at a place in your language skills where you are able to understand and respond appropriately. I’m still much better in English, but the French is manageable for me most of the time.
All three women were dealing with different issues, but there seemed to be two prominent themes today – health and motherhood. Both very profound, deep, and oftentimes troubling issues for a prisoner. The last woman I met with today sat with me for an hour, crying over several concerns like missing her family (particularly her children), struggling immensely with what she had done to find herself in prison, and coming to terms with harsh realities like a long-term prison sentence.
In that conversation I also came face to face with yet another story of someone making a mistake in a split second that ends up ruining their lives. They can’t take it back. They can only deal with the consequences and sometimes they’re very, very severe. I am not saying that everyone in prison is lovely and kind and good… but I am saying that there are some lovely, kind, and good people who find themselves in prison… and sometimes it’s for very long periods of time. In cases like those, I struggle with the purpose and utility of prison. I think I will be processing that for a long time.
It was a rough morning.
Finally, I will say that even though I did not want to go today… I showed up. I think sometimes that’s all we have to do and then God does the rest. Sometimes we don’t have the strength or the endurance to do more than that, but God fills in the gaps. This ended up being one of my holiest and hardest days in the prison. A morning filled with sadness and blessing and anger and joy. And with all the good and the bad… I’m so very humbled and glad that it is my privilege to serve in this capacity for this time.
I know that this entry has likely been ramble-y and scattered… but it’s definitely how my brain is functioning today. Today is one of those days where there is simply too much to process and so my mind is going in every which direction as I think through what happened this morning as well as the big questions continue to resonate in my mind. Sometimes being a chaplain is hard. Sometimes being a missionary is hard. And sometimes being both is beyond ridiculous. But I am grateful for it, and it makes me interested/excited to see what God has in store for me beyond Guadeloupe.


IMG_4610Driving through the city of Saint Pierre, Martinique, you wouldn’t think it was anything special. It’s just a normal small town on this beautiful, French-Caribbean island. The stores and restaurants are scrunched together and crafted in the average European-Caribbean style. The Haitians call this style “gingerbread”… but here it’s so ubiquitous there is no special name. The sea is close, but nothing special. No glamorous beaches with beautiful people sunbathing as the palm trees sway and the waves gently glide
onto the shore. No, it really doesn’t seem remarkable.

But as the saying goes, never judge a book by its cover.

In one period, Saint-Pierre was considered the “Pearl of the Antilles.” It was THE place to be. Many elite members of French society lived there and it was considerably wealthy. They had the best the world had to offer – a world class theatre (that was rich enough to pay for the best French theatre troupes to travel there and perform), a magnificent


The theatre in Saint-Pierre

cathedral that was built in the 1600s, and access to the latest trends and fashions from Europe. What made Saint-Pierre so alluring was not so much the landscape but the land itself – being rich and able to produce wonderful, in-demand products like coffee, sugar, cacao, and vanilla. Therefore, they came in droves and they made the rather unassuming and homely town into a bustling, exciting city that truly had to be a sight to behold.

However, all good things must come to an end.

1902 was an election year. And as people in the U.S. are reminded right now – crazy stuff can (and does) happen during election years.

The elections for Martinique were arranged for May 8, 1902. Everything was in place. Campaigning had been fierce, ballots were ready, and local election officials were totally prepared to execute their duties. And then it happened. The volcano began… gurgling.

By gurgling I mean that it was starting to puff out some smoke and make some noise.  It was obvious that something bigger was on its way. However, the question was: when? The government debated. Do we evacuate the towns in the north of the island before the elections (therefore postponing them and basically making all of our hard work moot – which would be especially awful it if took the volcano several weeks to erupt), or wait until immediately after elections to evacuate everyone in the north (therefore allowing elections to continue as planned and still (hopefully) keeping everyone safe)?


Ruins of the town hall and prison in Saint-Pierre

There were pros and cons to both options, and, unfortunately, either choice may end up with a negative political ramification.  If they evacuate the people early and postpone the election, but the volcano doesn’t erupt for several weeks, the people would blame the government for wasting so much money. However, if they evacuate after the election but the volcano erupts before then… the government would certainly be blamed for that, too. It was a rock and a hard place, for sure. But, in the end, the government decided that the threat was not imminent and the elections should continue as planned.

No evacuations were made.

Not only that, but extra folks came into the city, just to prove to residents that it was completely safe. The local governor, for example, traveled to Saint-Pierre to vote in the election with his entire family in tow as a grand gesture. Hindsight is 20-20, I suppose.

At 8 AM on May 8, 1902, the volcano erupted and a pyroclastic flow descended on the town instantly killing everyone who was there. Yes, including the poor governor and his wife and kids. And with that, what was possibly the richest town in the Caribbean at the time, filled with celebrities, business moguls, and the like… was obliterated in mere minutes.



There was a survivor.


Now, apparently, there may have been more than one, but there was only one knownIMG_4616 survivor who was in the heart of the destruction.

His name was Louis-August Cyparis. And before May 8, 1902, he was somewhat well-known as the town drunk.

As the story (legend?) goes, Cyparis was drunk (again) and he was being a nuisance. So someone thought to throw him in the prison overnight to sober up. This act, strangely enough, saved his life. When the morning came and the volcano erupted, the walls
of the cell were so thick and the ventilation was just right that he survived. He did not escape untouched (he ended up with several burns on his skin), but he lived.


The prison cell of Cyparis

In fact, his story was so miraculous that he ended up traveling around with Barnum and Bailey circus in the States. Weird things happen sometimes.

But the rest perished. There was the church, for example, that was hosting their morning worship and was in the middle of their service of communion when the volcano erupted. It is estimated that approximately 400 people were trapped inside. Beyond that, most were just starting on their morning routine – eating breakfast, heading to work, tending to the livestock, visiting the local shops, and within minutes they were gone. 30-40 thousand people lived in Saint-Pierre at the time and all of them… gone.

In the wake of this tragedy, many people asked, “Why?” Why had God chosen to strike down this city – this grand and important city? Some speculated that it was a “Sodom and


The ruins of the cathedral in Saint-Pierre

Gomorrah” of sorts with too much sinning going on – drinking, prostitution, gambling, all that kind of stuff. That God couldn’t find one good thing about it so God decided to obliterate the whole thing. Of course, my theological mind doesn’t really agree with that line of theological thinking… but even if it did, it’s kind of difficult to follow that line of thought when the ONE person saved was the “town drunk.” Regardless, the question still seems to remain today, and in the aftermath of such a trauma, the “Pearl of the Antilles” never returned to reclaim its crown.


So there you have it: a brief history of the eruption of Mont Pelée in 1902 and the destruction of the town of Saint-Pierre. It’s an incredible story that I was lucky enough to explore and learn more about this weekend. The Caribbean is a fascinating place.


Writing on the (Prison) Wall

Yesterday, I went to a training session at the prison in Baie-Mahault with a group of Protestant chaplains of Guadeloupe. As part of the training, we got a tour of the entire prison. We saw the area where prisoners go to meet with family members. We saw the area with services like a library and classrooms. We saw the “ateliers” center where they make clothes, picture frames, furniture, and more… all with great artistic expression. We saw the space where they house minors. One of the minors played a joke by surprising the last chaplain with a loud, “Boo!” from his room right when the chaplain passed by his door. (Causing a big laugh from all of us.) And we saw the two different housing blocks for men – the CD (for long term prisoners, after they’ve been judged) and the MA (for short term prisoners or those waiting judgment).

Admittedly, the CD was fairly uncomfortable for me. I got quite a few cat calls and stares even though I was in the midst of a group and was not the only female. (Although I was the youngest.) It was in this quarter that we also went inside a solitary confinement room. I’ve heard that energies can be imprinted on spaces if they’re strong enough. I don’t know if that’s true or not, but this place definitely seemed to have an angry energy to it. As if those who had been in this space had been filled with hate, frustration, anger, and despair. It was unnerving being in there, even with the door open and 6 of us in there together.

On the wall there was graffiti – varying in tone and message. There were religious phrases that said things like, “Jesus is Lord” and “Trust in God.” Then, there were other messages that were along the lines of “F the surveillants” (guards). Some of the messages were in French, some were in Creole, and some were even in English. While there were many messages, one note in particular caught my eye. It was above the sink in the room and appeared to have been written in sharpie so it was fairly pronounced. It was also in English and it was long.

It was something along the lines of, “[Name] was put out here for 20 days here because he boxed out a surveillant. That’ll teach them not to mess with [name].” I’m not sure why that struck me so, but I think a big part of it was that this guy wanted to be remembered. He wanted those who came after him to know that he had endured his time in solitary and that he was tough. It almost has a tone of, “yeah, I ended up here for 20 days, but it was worth it!” To me, this seems strange – that you would want to be known/remembered for punching or beating up a guard. But that appeared to be the only message that this particular inmate had left behind in the cell. Nothing else was written in sharpie and English or in that handwriting. It was the only message he left behind.

“[Name] was put out here for 20 days because he boxed out a surveillant.”

It was an interesting and eye-opening tour that helped us to get a larger picture of how the prison works, as well as the challenges that inmates, guards, and the administration face. As I usually only meet with the women at this prison, it was helpful to get a different perspective. However, I found myself asking the question, “What messages are we leaving behind and/or encouraging others to leave behind?”

While there are still many angry, defiant people in the world, proud of violent accomplishments, I continue to pray, hope for, and work toward a world and reality where that is less and less common. I work to adopt, as Howard Thurman put it, a “love ethic” – an ethic that chooses love regardless of what challenges, pain, or frustration we may face. While some days this ethic is easier to live than others, it’s the message and the memory that I hope to leave behind. It’s the message that we are all called to leave behind. Because as we know…

“And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these, is love.”

C’est quoi un missionnaire?

Last night as we were walking on a seaside path in Le Moule, Guadeloupe, 6-year-old Paul suddenly posed the question, “C’est quoi un missionnaire?” (What is a missionary?)

That’s a great question! (And one I get asked fairly often, in many different ways.) After a short moment of thought I said,

“Missionaries are people who leave the communities they come from and go to live in another place. In their new place, they work to share God’s love, to help bring some of God’s light to others, and to serve and learn alongside the local people. Missionaries also serve as a reminder to the people back home and the people in the new community that we are all brothers and sisters in Christ and we are united even though we may come from different places.”

Granted, missionaries can be a lot more than that or a lot less than that. Sometimes we don’t live up to those things. We are human. Sometimes we fail, things get in the way, or we stop listening to the One who called us. However, as I see it, that’s really the heart of my (our) work. To help share just a small piece of God’s love in a new place, to learn from the new culture and community, and to help serve as a reminder of worldwide unity and partnership.

So. Here’s one thing you should know about missionaries: There are many different types of missionaries. There are theologically conservative missionaries who are working with local churches to evangelize. There are theologically liberal missionaries doing the same thing. There are missionaries working as doctors. There are missionaries working as teachers. There are missionaries working on church building projects. There are missionaries working on well building projects. There are missionaries serving as pastors and administrators, and there are missionaries serving as engineers and interpreters. Some come from wealthy backgrounds and some do not. Some are highly educated and some are not. Some come from the United States and many (MANY) do not. Some speak English and some do not. There are many different types of missionaries.

And there you have it! We’re not scary (well, most of us aren’t anyway 😉 ). We’re just people serving God and others in culturally foreign contexts. Pretty simple, eh?

To my other missionary pals out there, what would you add? How do you respond to the question, “What is a missionary?”

Prison: Part 1: The Experience

Friends, it’s been a long time since I’ve written about prison.  This is a real shame. Today, I plan to correct that.

Each week I visit both jails in Guadeloupe.

The one in Basse-Terre is very old. Originally, it was built as a convent and after 100 years of serving that purpose (if I remember correctly), it was sold to France and transformed into a prison. It is right next to the courthouse in Guadeloupe, so it’s a very convenient location.

This prison is generally for non-violent offenders and those who have shorter sentences. A significant number of the prisoners in Basse-Terre are from Dominica and St. Martin (approximately 20-25%) and are in prison due to drug related situations. This prison is all men.

Life there generally appears to be more laid-back and easy going than Baie-Mahault, but the prisoners there also have access to fewer resources and activities. The process of going inside the jail is cumbersome, but a bit less intimidating than Baie-Mahault. When I arrive, I ring the doorbell for the guard to open the big gate. Once inside the big gate, I stand outside a locked door and hand a guard my passport. He or she reads my information and looks me up on a list of “allowed persons.” Then, the guard presses a button and I am able to go inside. Once inside, I receive a vistors badge and then go through a metal detector and pass my things through a scanner. After that, I can fully go into the jail. I have to pass through a few doors where I have to press buttons and wait for the person at the control panel to let me in. Once I reach the control panel, I say, “Je suis de l’aumônerie protestante. Je suis ici pour l’étude biblique en anglais.” Then, they let me through to the area where the prisoners are.

Once I am inside, I find a guard and tell them that I’m there for the Bible study in English. Then, they’ll take me to an available room and alert the inmates on my list that I’m there and ready for the Bible study if they want to come. I have a few regulars, but it’s almost never the same group of people. As many of the prisoners work or have other obligations, sometimes many of them aren’t available. Usually I meet with them for an hour or an hour and a half then we let a nearby guard know that we’re finished, the men are taken back to their cells, and I exit the same way that I entered.

Baie-Mahault is different. For one, it’s significantly larger. Basse-Terre has approximately 200 inmates while Baie-Mahault has over 800. Also, Baie-Mahault prison was built in the 90s, so it’s newer and perhaps slightly less bleak. This prison houses both men and women, although out of the 800+ prisoners, only 18 are women.

I spend most of my time in the women’s quarter. The women’s cells are pretty nice for cells. Each cell has a bunk bed, a desk, and a bathroom. Each cell also has a door that closes, giving the inmate privacy. Prisoners can also pay a monthly fee to have a TV (with cable) in the rooms and a mini fridge. Outside of the cells, the hallways are decorated with paper garlands and there are some baskets that were made by the women and a local artist. The women have an arts room and a general meeting room as well. There are other resources like a gym, library, etc. that the women have access to, but usually it’s just once a week or so. (Although they do get outdoor sports time almost every day, I believe.)

I have never visited the men’s quarters, but I get the impression that they’re quite cramped. The jail was not built to hold 800 men and apparently sometimes there can even be 4 men sharing one cell. At some point I likely will visit the men’s cell areas, but so far I’ve just seen the recreational areas like the classrooms, gym, and library.

Getting in and out is the same as it is in Basse-Terre except that you also need a signed letter of approval to enter Baie-Mahault in addition to being “on the list.” You also have to get through several more doors and check points before you’re in the inmate areas. Baie-Mahault is a bit more intimidating as it’s so much larger. Also, I’m not sure why, but it feels more “prison-y” in certain areas than Basse-Terre does.

It’s funny, though. I’ve now been visiting both prisons regularly for the past six months now and so it no longer feels like a big deal. It’s just part of the rhythm and routine of my life here. However, because it such a significant part of my life, there are certain thoughts and ideas that have been running through my head about prison and prisoners. For that, though, you’ll have to wait for Part 2… 🙂 (Coming soon!)

Thank you, Kayla.

It is rare that I come across others and think, “Wow, they’re a lot like me.”

I’m not sure why it’s difficult for me to find kindred spirits – those that I feel like “get me” as much as I “get them.” Maybe it’s because I’m an INFJ on the Myers-Briggs test. Maybe it’s because I grew up in a family filled with ministers. Maybe it’s because my first experience out of the country was living in large, but non-touristy, Wuhan, China. Maybe it’s because I regularly volunteered to help with childcare at a weekly homeless feeding program when I was in middle school. Maybe it’s because I spent my study abroad in Denmark learning about the horrors of human trafficking. Maybe it’s because I’ve had a gay best friend since I was in the 2nd grade. Maybe it’s because I’m a 2 on the enneagram and have always felt the need to be liked, loved, appreciated. Maybe it’s because I grew up with a family on all sides of the political spectrum. Maybe it’s because I spent close to two years in Haiti where I witnessed and learned about some otherwise truly unimaginable things that happen in our world.

And maybe it’s all of those things put together.

Regardless of what it is, while I have many people in my life that I love… “kindred spirits” are rare. There aren’t many people that I come across and think, “Yes! That’s how I think! That’s how I see the world!”

Now, don’t get me wrong, I love being with people who are different from me and who think and see things differently from me. It’s through these relationships that I’ve become who I am today. But, admittedly, it is sometimes lonely in my little universe and I sometimes ask myself, “Am I the only one who thinks/feels this way? Am I crazy?”

And then yesterday the news about Kayla Mueller’s death broke.

If you haven’t heard, Kayla Mueller was a 26-year-old American humanitarian serving in Turkey and Syria and working with Syrian refugees – particularly women and children. From what I gather she was a strong Christian who cared deeply for others and worked diligently to heal the world.  Even though she was just one person, she dedicated her life to ending whatever suffering and injustice she could.

As I read quotes from her, hear stories about her, it feels… eerie. Kayla Mueller is… was… a lot like me. A LOT like me.

Her words sound like things I have said/would say. Stories about her sound like things I would do or have done. She was 26, just like me. Serving internationally, just like me. Had a mother, father, and brother who love and supported her… just like me.

And so even though I never knew Kayla personally, her death feels personal. I admit that I have shed tears over Kayla Mueller. I mourn the bright light that was her life.

However, in the moment of sadness, I also find myself feeling encouraged by her life and spirit. Kayla Mueller died following God’s call. She died fighting violence with peace. She died staying true to the person that God had created her to be – sowing love wherever she went. And so, Kayla, I will work as hard as I can to do the same. To sow love, cultivate peace, and remain true to the woman God has called and created me to be.

Thank you for being you. Thank you for your work and compassion. Thank you for being a light in the darkness.

Au revoir, kindred spirit.  Dieu vous bénisse.

It’s been a long time…

I apologize for my silence on this blog as of late. If you’re Facebook friends with me, you’ve stayed pretty up to speed, but if not you’re probably wondering. “Where in the world is Beth Guy?? And what in the world has she been doing?”  Well, friends, here are the highlights since the last time I updated:

1. I have continued to  visit both jails here in Guadeloupe. At the jail in Baie-Mahault I do individual visits in the women’s prison. In Basse-Terre I do a weekly Bible study with a small group of English speakers. They’re both wonderful!

2. I recently started volunteer teaching English at a language center for kids and teenagers. Their philosophy is to learn through games, songs, art, and other activities…. which is right up my alley!

3. I was out with a friend and accidentally ended up in a dance off with a Guadeloupean woman. It was absolutely hilarious and we all had a great time.

4. I celebrated Thanksgiving here! We made turkey legs, a corn casserole, green bean casserole, garlic mashed potatoes, gravy, applesauce, stuffing, and for dessert we had cinnamon vanilla ice cream and pumpkin pie. However, much of the ingredients had to be created as I couldn’t buy them pre-made. For example, I had to make: creamed corn, fried onion pieces to top the green bean casserole, and use the insides out of another pumpkin-esque squash. It was awesome, though! It was so much fun to make the meal, share it with many people who had never had any Thanksgiving food before, and celebrate Katy’s birthday!

5. I ended up taking a last-minute trip to Dominica to avoid visa issues. I went on a Sunday and most things were closed, but I did get to walk around, explore a little bit, and speak English! It was an interesting place – it felt like if Haiti and Guadeloupe had an English speaking baby, it would be Dominica. I’m hopeful I might be able to visit again, but on a weekday when more things would be open.

6. I have been working and working on my French and it gets better and better each day, although sometimes my Kreyol still slips through. 🙂 I meet with my French teacher twice a week and I’m becoming more conversational and I can understand quite a bit of French now. It’s been, and continues to be, a lot of hard work, but it’s good.

7. I went to Paris for Christmas as it was significantly cheaper than going home. I had never been to Paris before so it was wonderful to explore the city and use my French, although it was quite cold! My favorite moment of the entire trip, though, was standing on the Eiffel Tower on Christmas day and looking out on the city of Paris. There aren’t really words to describe it, except that I felt… free… whole… in that moment. It was truly amazing.

8. I rang in the New Year with a bunch of people from the church at Katy and Hubert’s house. The French really know how to party on New Years! I left at 1:30 AM due to exhaustion and jet lag, but I was among the first to leave. It was crazy, but awesome. At midnight, we could see four different firework shows from their backyard, so we watched the shows while toasting with champagne.

9. I’ve been working with the children of the church as well (once a children’s minister, always a children’s minister?) and it’s been great! A few weeks ago, I had to spontaneously create a Sunday school lesson and it turned out pretty well despite no time to plan! 🙂 I’m really enjoying getting to know and work with all of the people here.

10. My family came to visit for a little vacation! It was great to see them and visit some of the most beautiful places on the islands. Unfortunately, I ended up injuring my wrist pretty badly on their second full day here so some of the plans had to be adjusted or changed, but overall it was still a great trip. On their last night here we hosted a meal of Kansas City barbecue with some of my favorite people here in Guadeloupe and it was super fun. Since then, my friend, Nathalie, has continued to refer to barbecue sauce as my “Kansas City sauce.” 🙂

11. We had a cornerstone dedication for the Reformed Protestant Church here. Right now, the worship space is rented, but hopefully within the next year or so they will have their own building! It’s an exciting time.

12. In the midst of all of this, we’ve been working on trying to set up a weekly English “house church” type of group, but it’s been difficult to get it off the ground. We are hopeful, though, that by the end of February we’ll be able to launch. We just need to secure a location and then we’ll be good to go.

So that’s the big update!! It’s been a wonderful time filled with many blessings. I’m certainly thankful.

Also, these stories have been published by Global Ministries if you want to read more stories about the work that I’m doing:

Possibility of Growth and Transformation
The Power of Meeting With One
Prayer and mission moment for Guadeloupe

That’s all for now! I’ll try to be better at updating. 🙂


Before arriving in Guadeloupe, I had watched a YouTube video that described Guadeloupe as, “So French,” and “Undeniably Caribbean.” However, even with that description, I still imagined that Guadeloupe would be MOSTLY Caribbean with little pieces of French flair here and there. However, I was wrong. The culture here really is a true mixture of French and Caribbean, creating a fascinating and delightful cultural experience for me.

Having lived in Haiti before, many of the Caribbean cultural aspects are not new to me. The people here definitely tend to run on “island time.” This means that if someone tells you they will see you at 2:30, it will likely be closer to 3 before they arrive. Even folks from mainland France have adapted to this attitude citing “C’est Guadeloupe!” (It’s Guadeloupe!) Also, outdoor markets and sellers are common here (although not nearly as common as they were in Haiti) and it is easy to find fresh fruits, vegetables, and fish from road-side booths. Rum is readily available wherever you go, as well. Further, the traditional music, clothing, and dances of Guadeloupe are definitely still alive and well in modern-day Guadeloupe.

However, here are some cultural things that are new for me:

1. The aperitif. If someone invites you to their house for dinner, then they will likely offer you an aperitif (alcoholic drink) before dinner. Here, that is usually some sort of rum based beverage (like Ti Punch – rum with sugar and lime) or wine. It’s quite nice. Also, when people come to visit, even if it’s just for a short time in the afternoon, it is polite to offer them a drink and it is helpful if you have several beverages on hand – “Would you like water, juice, tea, Coca Cola, or wine?” I have never had that many different types of drinks in my home so I’m trying to adapt in order to be a good hostess when people come to visit me.

2. Eating at home. People here do not seem to eat out often. People mostly cook meals at home and if they do go out, it’s for a snack or drinks. Apparently, this is very culturally French (and it is very culturally American to go out to eat a lot). I have been here for almost four weeks (wow!) and I have only been out to eat 3 times. (Two lunches at McDonald’s and one dinner at a Creole restaurant.) Also, food here is generally imported and, therefore, quite expensive. It is certainly cheaper to cook/make your own meals than to eat out, and even then it’s not that cheap.

3. No tipping. Here in Guadeloupe, as well as in France, the tip is included in the price of the meal. You would only leave a tip if the service was particularly exceptional. That definitely takes some getting used to for this American.

4. Kissing cheeks. When you greet a woman here, you kiss them on both cheeks. This is for a man greeting a woman and a woman greeting a woman. Men greeting other men just shake hands. Also, when people part ways, they will generally repeat the cheek kisses. This is another thing that is taking some getting used to as it’s not very natural for me. But, as it is when you are in any new culture, you learn and adjust. 🙂

5. Houses designed for outdoor living. Most of the homes here are designed for people to spend a significant amount of their living outside. For example, my apartment has a big door that slides open, making my living space like a shaded outdoor terrace. Most homes here are designed with large terraces/balconies and/or with ways to open up the house to the outdoors.

6. Regular beach trips. When there are several beaches within twenty minutes of your house and they’re all free… why wouldn’t you go all the time??

Although this list is not comprehensive, I hope it does give you a better idea of the culture I’m living in. It’s certainly a fun and interesting experience getting to know the culture here, and I am excited to see what further things I may discover!

I am woman, hear me roar

Today was one of those days.  One of those great days.

Before I came to Guadeloupe, I knew that people here really enjoyed doing things outside.  This is partially because there is more to do outside than inside, and partially because it’s fun regardless of what the inside options are.  However, having grown up in Kansas (flat with no oceans), I had never really had an opportunity to try half of the things that people here do for fun.  I told myself before I came here, though, that I wanted to be willing to try things. It might test my body a bit, it might be a bit difficult, but I wanted to try.

Today I was invited to go to Ilet du Gosier, the small island off of Gosier, the town that I am living in. (In my new apartment, woo hoo!)  I went with Katy, Danielle, and Elisabeth.  Elisabeth and Danielle had planned on swimming to the island while Katy was going to take a small boat to bring our food and supplies.  I was welcome to choose either option. I chose taking the boat as I wasn’t sure how long the swim would be and I just didn’t want to get too tired and not be able to make it.  I wanted to get a good glimpse of the path before deciding to swim.  On the boat, though, I looked at the path and thought, “That’s doable.  Next time I come, I think I’d like to swim that.”

Katy and I got on the island and waited for Elisabeth and Danielle.  When they arrived, we found a spot on the island to put our things and then we put on our snorkeling gear and got in the water.  It was a nice swim.  I saw several different types of fish, sea urchins, and coral.  It was easy and relaxed.

After our snorkeling, we sat down and ate a lovely lunch together right by the sea.  We could see Katy, Hubert, and Elisabeth’s house from where we were sitting.  After lunch, Elisabeth and I took the short walk to the lighthouse on the island to get that view as well.  Essentially, everywhere you looked there was a ridiculous amount of beauty.

As we were packing up to head back to Gosier,  I was asked, once again, if I wanted to swim or take the boat.  I thought about how I wanted to try new things, what good exercise it would be, and how it looked far, but not too far. So, while taking the boat would certainly be easier, I said, “I think I’d like to swim it.”

And ladies and gentlemen, swim it, I did.

It was an interesting swim that was more tiring on my arms than anything else.  Swimming that kind of distance while competing with waves and such is hard work.  I would go fast, then slow, then fast again.  I saw the incredible sight of a school of fish swimming next to a boat.  I saw more sea urchins, seaweed, and other things crawling on the sea floor.  And yes, there was even one time when I looked over to my right and saw a jellyfish bobbing dangerously close to me.  The swim took about 20-25 minutes with a brief, minute-long break.

By the end, I was tired but also extremely energized.  I had conquered the swim.  I didn’t need any help.  My body could do it.  I could do it.  I am woman, hear me roar.

Photo 1: We swam the path where the boats are, from the small island on the right to the town. Photo 2: Me, in my snorkelin' gear. Photo 3: Elisabeth and me on lighthouse side of the island

Photo 1: We swam the path where the boats are, from the small island on the right to the town. Photo 2: Me, in my snorkelin’ gear. Photo 3: Elisabeth and me on lighthouse side of the island

I am thankful for these moments of trying new things, of getting outside comfort zones, and seeing things in new ways. They re-energize me, feed me, and help me uncover new layers of who I am and what I am capable of doing. They awesome and wonderful blessings, and I am so excited to see what other new opportunities God throws my way during my time here in Guadeloupe.

So. What new thing will you do today?


The jails in Guadeloupe are run by the French government, so the prisons here follow French rules and regulations.  Somehow, I believed that French jails and U.S. jails would be quite similar if not almost exactly the same (minus the whole speaking French part).  However, I have come to find that I was wrong.  There are a few pretty noticeable differences between what I’ve observed and experienced through the U.S. prison system and the French prison system.

The first thing that was most noticeable to me was that the prisoners are wearing street clothes instead of prison uniforms.  These clothes are provided by family and friends of the prisoner.  If the prisoner does not have family or friends who are available or able to help them, then the prisons seek help from outside organizations. (Like Men a Lespwa, for example.)  Some folks in the prison only have one top and one bottom, and sometimes those pieces are too small/big or have stains, holes, etc.  There is certainly a need for donated clothes in the prisons.

The second thing I noticed was that guards are not omni-present.  Now, don’t get me wrong – this does not mean that it’s not well guarded or that I felt unsafe. No. It just means that the prisoners have a few opportunities to be a bit more independent.  For example, when chaplains come to meet with people, we meet with people in a larger meeting/gathering space and the guard does not come inside with us. If there is a problem, a guard is readily available, but the prisoners do have that opportunity to speak openly with a chaplain. Also, as we walk around, we are not escorted by a guard.  I am not certain if all of this is common practice in the U.S. or not, though, as when I’ve been in a U.S. jail, I was with a group of students and we were escorted the entire time. Maybe others can enlighten me?

Another thing is that there aren’t dress codes for visitors and there are very few restrictions on things that you can bring into the jail, in comparison to the United States. I remember that when I visited one jail in the U.S., women were told that we had to wear short sleeve or longer shirts with a crew neck (absolutely no cleavage showing), pants or a long skirt, and no jewelry. Furthermore, we were not allowed to bring our purses into the jail, although we could take paper and a writing utensil inside if we wanted to take notes.  That is not the case here.  You can wear whatever you want (although I still dress pretty modestly) and you can take in bags and purses (although you can’t take in any weapons (duh), cell phones/electronics, and illegal substances).

It’s certainly interesting and I’m sure I’ll learn and notice more things along the way.  We are also hoping that I might soon be able to get French residency here and, once that happens, file to be an “official chaplain of France.” Cool things!